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A Bahá’í Wedding 77 |
QUITE an oriental note was struck
toward the end of ‘Abdu’l-Bahá’s
London visit, by the marriage of a
young Persian couple who had sought
his presence for the ceremony, the bride
journeying from Baghdad accompanied by her
uncle in order to meet her fiance here and be
married before ‘Abdu’l-Bahá’s departure. The
bride’s father and grandfather had been followers
of Bahá’u’lláh during the time of his banishment.
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We hesitate to alter the bridegroom’s description
of the service and therefore print it in his own simple
and beautiful language. It will serve to show a side
not touched on elsewhere, and without which no
idea of his visit is complete. We refer to the attitude
of reverence with which people from the East who
came to see ‘Abdu’l-Bahá regard their great
teacher. They invariably rise and stand with bowed
heads whenever he enters the room.
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After receiving us, ‘Abdu’l-Bahá said, “You are
very welcome and it makes me happy to see you
here in London.”
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Looking at me he said, “Never have I united
anyone in marriage before, except my own
daughters, but as I love you much, and you have
rendered a great service to the Kingdom of Abhá,
both in this country and in other lands, I will
perform your marriage ceremony today. It is my
hope that you may both continue in the blessed
path of service.”
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Then ‘Abdu’l-Bahá called me to him and put a
similar question, that is to say, “Do you love Núr
Mahal Khánum with all your heart and soul?” I
answered “Yes, I do.” We re-entered the room
together and ‘Abdu’l-Bahá took the right hand of
the bride and gave it into that of the bridegroom
and asked us to say after him, “We do all to
please God.”
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We all sat down and ‘Abdu’l-Bahá continued;
“Marriage is a holy institution and much
encouraged in this blessed cause. Now you two
are no longer two, but one. Bahá’u’lláh’s wish is
that all men be of one mind and consider
themselves of one great household, that the mind
of mankind be not divided against itself.
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“May joy be increased to you as the years go
by, and may you become thriving trees bearing
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delicious and fragrant fruits which are the
blessings in the path of service.”
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After a little while we gathered around the
table with him. During the meal one of the friends
asked ‘Abdu’l-Bahá how he enjoyed his stay in
London, and what he thought of the English
people. I acted as interpreter. ‘Abdu’l-Bahá
replied: “I have enjoyed London very much and
the bright faces of the friends have delighted my
heart. I was drawn here by their unity and love.
In the world of existence there is no more
powerful magnet than the magnet of love. These
few days will pass away, but their import shall be
remembered by God’s friends in all ages and in all
lands.
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There are living nations and dead nations.
Syria lost its civilization through lethargy of
spirit. The English nation is a living one, and
when in this spiritual springtime the divine truth
come forth with renewed vitality, the English will
be like fruitful trees, and the Holy Spirit will
enable them to flourish in abundance. Then will
they gain not only materially, but in that which is
far more important, spiritual progress, which will
enable them to render a greater service to the
world of humanity.”
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Another asked why the teachings of all religions
are expressed largely by parables and metaphors
and not in the plain language of the people.
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‘Abdu’l-Bahá replied:—“Divine things are too
deep to be expressed by common words. The
heavenly teachings are expressed in parable in
order to be understood and preserved for ages to
come. When the spiritually minded dive deeply
into the ocean of their meaning they bring to the
surface the pearls of their inner significance.
There is no greater pleasure than to study God’s
Word with a spiritual mind.”
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“The object of God’s teaching to man is that
man may know himself in order to comprehend
the greatness of God. The Word of God is for
agreement and concord. If you go to Persia where
the friends of Abhá are many, you will at once
realize the unifying force of God’s work. They are
doing their utmost to strengthen this bond of
amity. There, people of different nationalities
gather in one meeting and chant the divine tablets
with one accord. It might be supposed that they
were all brethren. We do not consider anyone a
stranger, for it is said by Bahá’u’lláh ‘Ye are all
the rays of one sun; the fruits of one tree; and the
leaves of one branch.’ We desire the true
brotherhood of humanity. This shall be so, and it
has already begun. Praise to be God, the Helper,
the Pardoner!”
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