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“122: With regard to the statement attributed to ‘Abdu’l-Bahá and which you…” |
With regard to the statement attributed to ‘Abdu’l-Bahá and which you
have quoted in your letter regarding a “problem child”: these statements of
the Master, however true in their substance, should never be given a literal
interpretation. ‘Abdu’l-Bahá could have never meant that a child should be
left to himself, entirely free. In fact Bahá’í education, just like any
other system of education, is based on the assumption that there are certain
natural deficiencies in every child, no matter how gifted, which his educators,
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whether his parents, schoolmasters, or his spiritual guides and preceptors,
should endeavour to remedy. Discipline of some sort, whether physical, moral
or intellectual, is indeed indispensable, and no training can be said to be
complete and fruitful if it disregards this element. The child when born is
far from being perfect. It is not only helpless, but actually is imperfect,
and even is naturally inclined towards evil. He should be trained, his
natural inclinations harmonized, adjusted and controlled, and if necessary
suppressed or regulated, so as to ensure his healthy physical and moral
development. Bahá’í parents cannot simply adopt an attitude of
non-resistance towards their children, particularly those who are unruly and
violent by nature. It is not even sufficient that they should pray on their
behalf. Rather they should endeavour to inculcate, gently and patiently, into
their youthful minds such principles of moral conduct and initiate them into
the principles and teachings of the Cause with such tactful and loving care as
would enable them to become “true sons of God” and develop into loyal and
intelligent citizens of His Kingdom. This is the high purpose which
Bahá’u’lláh Himself has clearly defined as the chief goal of every education.
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