You are quite right in stating that men and women have basic and distinct
qualities. The solution provided in the teachings of Bahá’u’lláh is not,
as you correctly observe, for men to become women, and for women to become men.
‘Abdu’l-Bahá gave us the key to the problem when He taught that the qualities
and functions of men and women “complement” each other. He further elucidated
this point when He said that the “new age” will be “an age in which the
masculine and feminine elements of civilization will be more properly
balanced.”
(22 April 1981 to an individual believer) [34]