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38: Work ye for the guidance of the women in that land, teach the young girls and… |
Work ye for the guidance of the women in that land, teach the young girls and
the children, so that the mothers may educate their little ones from their
earliest days, thoroughly train them, rear them to have a goodly character and
good morals, guide them to all the virtues of humankind, prevent the
development of any behaviour that would be worthy of blame, and foster them in
the embrace of Bahá’í education. Thus shall these tender infants be nurtured
at the breast of the knowledge of God and His love. Thus shall they grow and
flourish, and be taught righteousness and the dignity of humankind, resolution
and the will to strive and to endure. Thus shall they learn perseverance in
all things, the will to advance, high mindedness and high resolve, chastity and
purity of life. Thus shall they be enabled to carry to a successful conclusion
whatsoever they undertake.
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Let the mothers consider that whatever concerneth the education of
children is of the first importance. Let them put forth every effort in this
regard, for when the bough is green and tender it will grow in whatever way ye
train it. Therefore it is incumbent upon the mothers to rear their little ones
even as a gardener tendeth his young plants. Let them strive by day and by
night to establish within their children faith and certitude, the fear of God,
the love of the Beloved of the worlds, and all good qualities and traits.
Whensoever a mother seeth that her child hath done well, let her praise and
applaud him and cheer his heart; and if the slightest undesirable trait should
manifest itself, let her counsel the child and punish him, and use means based
on reason, even a slight verbal chastisement should this be necessary. It is
not, however, permissible to strike a child, or vilify him, for the child’s
character will be totally perverted if he be subjected to blows or verbal
abuse.
(“Selections from the Writings of ‘Abdu’l-Bahá”, sec. 95, pp. 124–25) [38] |