In considering the problems that you and your wife are experiencing, the
House of Justice points out that the unity of your family should take priority
over any other consideration. Bahá’u’lláh came to bring unity to the world,
and a fundamental unity is that of the family. Therefore, we must believe that
the Faith is intended to strengthen the family, not weaken it. For example,
service to the Cause should not produce neglect of the family. It is important
for you to arrange your time so that your family life is harmonious and your
household receives the attention it requires.